One thing that I discovered in my life is that God is not always going to deliver you from tough or difficult situations. Sometimes God allows you to go through things to build character and integrity but also to glorify His kingdom. So many times we pray and pray and feel as if God is not hearing our cries but God is allowing you to go through that trial for a reason. What we have to do is just give up trying to get out of the trial and just trust that God is going to take you through it and bring you out better than ever. God brought me through the death of my husband William J. Reynolds Sr. but I thought I was going to surely die...I'm a better woman today because of God. I have a closer relationship with God because I have nobody else I can lean and depend on. So hang on and let God make you what he wants you to be.